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Star Trek's Fabulous Female Friendships

It's never a bad time to celebrate the women on this list.

Illustrated collage featuring Star Trek's top friendships — Burnham/Tilly, Kira/Dax, and Beverly/Deanna

Even today, it's hard to find depictions of positive camaraderie between women characters on-screen. Too often, large ensemble casts have only a single woman who’s considered “one of the guys” and rejects traditional womanhood. While this may seem empowering because it allows the character to break free of traditional gender roles, it can become problematic when it quietly, perhaps subconsciously, pits women against other women. Indeed, even when there is another woman present, she is too often a rival or nemesis.

But this post isn’t about calling out the shows that got it wrong. It’s about celebrating how Star Trek has been doing it right since Star Trek: The Next Generation. Women friendships are incredibly important, providing women and girls with solidarity, comfort, confidence, joy, and candor in a world that, in many cases, still treats them as second-class citizens, and certainly places more pressures on them. And much of what we see depicted in popular culture trickles into our real-world attitudes.

When the women of Star Trek bond, help each other, and experience joy in each other’s company, they’re providing a positive example to those at home watching. Here are a few highlights.

Star Trek: The Next Generation's Beverly Crusher and Deanna Troi

Beverly Crusher and Deanna Troi take time out of their schedule for light aerobic stretching in 'The Price'

"The Price"

Beverly Crusher and Deanna Troi may be senior officers on the Federation’s flagship, but they still make time to work out together. It doesn’t matter that they face unknown wonders and dangers every single day. They’re still people first and foremost, and they never forget it, attending to each other’s emotional needs, leaning on each other, and confiding in one another.

In the Titan's Observation Lounge, a seated Deanna Troi and Beverly Crusher reach across the table holding each other's hands as Data and Geordi La Forge observe


In fact, it’s refreshing how generally positive and drama-free their relationship is, showing that sometimes, women can simply be friends, and it doesn’t have to be complicated.

Star Trek: Deep Space Nine's Kira Nerys and Jadzia Dax

At their station, Jadzia Dax and Kira turn around and warmly grin in 'A Simple Investigation'

"A Simple Investigation"

The friendship between Kira Nerys and Jadzia Dax was a bit of a slow burn at the beginning — understandable given Kira’s general attitude toward the Federation — but eventually grew into a healthy camaraderie.

This seemed especially significant for Kira who, because of her traumatic past and tumultuous background, had trouble trusting anyone. The two eventually become confidants, seeking each other’s advice, teasing, and discussing romances. These are the kinds of “girly” things that are often portrayed as frivolous nonsense, yet Deep Space Nine depicted them as important character moments between two respected members of the crew. Rather than shying away from the “girliness” of women gossiping and talking about dating, the show embraced it, and in the end, it helped humanize and deepen both characters.

Star Trek: Voyager's Captain Janeway and Seven

Janeway and Seven of Nine raise their glasses in cheers in 'Human Error'

"Human Error"

On the flip side, the relationship between Captain Kathryn Janeway and ex-Borg Seven of Nine is extremely complex. Janeway takes Seven in with the best of intentions, and Seven initially antagonizes her.

Even after they’ve struck a truce of sorts, Seven frequently challenges Janeway publicly and is often a frustrating presence. And yet through it all, there’s an unspoken thread of mutual respect, with neither woman thinking the other a fool even in their moments of deep disagreement. While their friendship is often complicated, it’s never depicted as outright adversarial. And there are plenty of happy moments too — consider both Janeway helping Seven cultivate her humanity, and Seven looking up to Janeway as a role model. While they sometimes struggle to understand each other, they never stop trying, and that’s what ultimately makes their friendship great.

Star Trek: Discovery's Michael Burnham and Sylvia Tilly

Michael Burnham and Sylvia Tilly find a moment of levity and joy in each other's presence in Tilly's quarters in 'All Is Possible'

"All Is Possible"

Michael Burnham and Silvia Tilly are unlikely friends if there ever were any. Burnham, frosty and not easily impressed, initially finds the enthusiastic and awkward Tilly to be a nuisance, while Tilly is intimidated by Burnham’s reputation and tries to avoid her. But they eventually warm up to each other and become trusted companions. Tilly is there for Burnham during some of the latter’s most emotionally fraught moments — made even more complicated by Burnham’s Vulcan upbringing chafing against her humanity. Theirs is the kind of relationship that grows with the show, and it will be interesting to see where Discovery advances it.

Of course, these are only a handful of the fabulous women friendships of Star Trek. Examples abound — Georgiou and Burnham, Kira and Ziyal, Janeway and Kes. These depictions are often peppered into plots about interstellar intrigue and newfound worlds. In the real world, these friendships matter because they provide women and girls with joy and emotional support in a culture that is often still hostile toward them. On-screen examples normalize and validate these relationships, and on Star Trek, you can both run a space station and gossip about your latest crush to your best gal — no judgments passed.