Star Trek

I cant figure out who he was talking about

Memory Alpha says that Spock married Saavik in 2329 (the novel Vulcan's Heart). Picard, then a lieutenant, felt out-of-place, so he hung out with Dr. McCoy, one of the few other humans there.

 I had also thought he was married to T'Pring, but he was not.

Personally, I NEVER saw the Saavik/Spock
Connection. Yes, she did The Needful and
got the ManChild Spock through Pon Farr,
out of necessity. But neither before, or
after, was there anything between the two
in the actual movies, or on TV. I was glad
they left it vague who Spock actually wed.

the issue is even more vague then you think.

We have no canon evidence that Spock EVER got married.

The TNG episode "Sarek" tells us that Picard attended the weading of "A" son of Sarek............but not which son.

I hadn't considered that alternative ...
Sarek and Perin could've had a son, or
maybe Sybok survived his ordeal on ShaKari?
Look, I know it doesn't make any real difference,
but if these writers are going to go THAT far, as
to say "A son of Sarek" got married, then they should
go ALL.............the way. Names, you cowards! NAMES!!!

More canon support that Spock was married--in "Sarek", as mentioned above, Picard noted that he had met Sarek once before"at your son's wedding".  Then later, in "Unification, part I" Picard mentioned that he had "met Spock once".

Not hard proof, but corroborating evidence.

Evidence only that Picard met both Sarek and Spock when he was young.

No canon evidence or support what so ever that Spock ever got married.

I certainly NEVER go by the novels. People like to discuss that ST:TAS was canon or not. I'll leave that one in the air. But I have read Star Trek novels that COMPLETELY contradict other novels. Hell, I read a book that said Spock had a son from the "cave woman" in "All our Yesterdays". And somehow he gets sent to TOS. I would say it's pretty well known that Spock had no offspring. That's why I stopped reading the books. They got VERY outlandish and had no continuity with other novels.

If Spock was married, I think they just left open to whom he married in case they painted themselves in a corner and had a gaping plot hole.

sorry, but thats not correct either.

NOTHING is known as to if he did or did not have xhildren.