wissa GROUP: Members POSTS: 3917 |
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May. 25 2012, 8:55 am
Could you reconsider your decision not to have a pm system on the board? There is a real sense of community building here again and I think a pm system would really encourage that. It's through pm's that casual aquantances on the board become real friends. Sure they could use email but there is no way to securely exchange email or any other information on the board.
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caltrek2 GROUP: Members POSTS: 2654 |
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May. 25 2012, 9:05 am
Sadly, just before they ended the pm function, there were some individuals using it to make back door threats and organize attacks upon targeted individuals. I recommend asking people to go to another web site where there are pm functions or otherwise leaving a trail that people can follow to contact you in person. Of course, precautions should be taken so that you don't have to fight off an unwanted stalker.
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wissa GROUP: Members POSTS: 3917 |
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May. 25 2012, 9:15 am
I never heard anything like that. And there was a block feature where you could prevent people from pming you
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DATAWORFfantotally GROUP: Members POSTS: 473 |
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May. 25 2012, 9:21 am
pm is what again? i 4got so... and i don't mean "its past 12o'clock" lol
NOTHING THAT IS REAL IS REAL!
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wissa GROUP: Members POSTS: 3917 |
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May. 25 2012, 9:23 am
personal message
the old boards had a system where you could message other posters privately
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DATAWORFfantotally GROUP: Members POSTS: 473 |
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May. 25 2012, 9:27 am
NOTHING THAT IS REAL IS REAL!
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shika_narks GROUP: Members POSTS: 852 |
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May. 25 2012, 11:25 am
Quote: caltrek2 @ May. 25 2012, 9:05 am | >
>Sadly, just before they ended the pm function, there were some individuals using it to make back door threats and organize attacks upon targeted individuals. I recommend asking people to go to another web site where there are pm functions or otherwise leaving a trail that people can follow to contact you in person. Of course, precautions should be taken so that you don't have to fight off an unwanted stalker.
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Most sites have a feature to report any kind of offence on the top corner... they should have it with PMs as well.
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randy kerr GROUP: Members POSTS: 414 |
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May. 25 2012, 11:27 am
i hope that some one will tell me on how to make friends here.
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wissa GROUP: Members POSTS: 3917 |
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May. 25 2012, 2:56 pm
Quote: shika_narks @ May. 25 2012, 11:25 am | Quote: caltrek2 @ May. 25 2012, 9:05 am | >
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>Sadly, just before they ended the pm function, there were some individuals using it to make back door threats and organize attacks upon targeted individuals. I recommend asking people to go to another web site where there are pm functions or otherwise leaving a trail that people can follow to contact you in person. Of course, precautions should be taken so that you don't have to fight off an unwanted stalker.
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Most sites have a feature to report any kind of offence on the top corner... they should have it with PMs as well.
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not to mention there were years of pm's here without any major issues. And there is nothing to stop people from having other web sites to organize attacks or threats.
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Matthias Russell GROUP: Members POSTS: 7705 |
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May. 25 2012, 5:15 pm
I use the PM function on trekbbs and facebook all the time and never have trouble. Like Wissa says, if you don't want to hear from someone, you block them. Easy-peasy.
I think having PM and blocking abilities would actually reduce the trolling because the trolls would move onto PMing where we would block them.
However, as I've said, Wissa. The admins are NOT going to make changes. They haven't budged on suggestions and advice by caring members in the last few years.
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shika_narks GROUP: Members POSTS: 852 |
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May. 25 2012, 11:30 pm
then maybe they will learn the hard way.....
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caltrek2 GROUP: Members POSTS: 2654 |
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May. 26 2012, 7:39 am
Quote: randy kerr @ May. 25 2012, 11:27 am | >
>i hope that some one will tell me on how to make friends here.
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If there were an add as friend function here, you would have just been added to my list.

As Americans, we sometimes suffer from too much pluribus and not enough unum.
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shika_narks GROUP: Members POSTS: 852 |
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May. 29 2012, 2:11 am
its time to consider banning IPS? just a thought
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Bevi GROUP: Members POSTS: 194 |
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May. 30 2012, 2:31 am
* sigh* Just ignore it. And yes to pms.
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Reedworftripparis GROUP: Members POSTS: 4154 |
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Jul. 03 2012, 11:24 pm
I would love a pm system here. There are things you just don't want to give out on a profile. And as already mentioned, you can stop people from pming you. Easy as that.
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