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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 4:31 pm

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>Someone said something about stupid people. And yes I agree. I've run across some people who are homophobic and I jsut think it's stupid in this day and age. They're not 'imposing themselves' on you so why hate on them for their preferences. Noone hates you for your marmite love.

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Is that why they're getting special treatment and trying to force churches to "marry" them?


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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 4:32 pm

 


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"So... there's no such thing as morality in your view.... and all the laws, based on the Bible should be thrown out....."


of course there is morality.  But other than things that are actually against the law, we don't get to decide what is "moral" for other adults.  And I believe that laws should have more going for them than "they are in the bible' like maybe some sort of rational thought.  Your country was founded on freedom of religion remember? 


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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 4:35 pm

Is that why they're getting special treatment and trying to force churches to "marry" them?




Special treatment? Sorry. Where? And why shouldn't they be able to marry.


'Boundaries don't keep other people out, they fence you in. Life is messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. Here's what I know. If you're willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance, the view from the other side... is spectacular.' musingsofastrugglingwaitress.wordpress.com

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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 4:37 pm

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"It's not "his" corner. It's the "corner" of a system of belief and morals that has been in place for centuries. He just happens to follow that system. He didn't invent it. It's there. 


 


Again, on the other hand, I could say that it's "incredible arrogant" for you to tell me that what was once held as immoral is now perfectly moral."


It is also a system that I have no obligation to follow and you have no right to impose on me.  It's also a system of belief and "moral" that justified slavery, plural marriages, concubines, and all sorts of things we no longer practice.


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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 4:44 pm

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>Is that why they're getting special treatment and trying to force churches to "marry" them?

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>Special treatment? Sorry. Where? And why shouldn't they be able to marry.

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Why is speaking out against homosexuality considered "hate speech" in some places?  Why are they a "protected" group?


Marriage is defined by God as one man and one woman.  If two men or two women (or whatever other variation they want to add) demand that a church "marry" them, that is a direct attack on the religion.


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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 4:49 pm

It can lead to discrimination, which is wrong, whatever you're basing it on. They're not really protected, and besides people don't throw stones at straight people.
If God exists, then he made them the way they are. We are told to love everyone. Why are they any different.


'Boundaries don't keep other people out, they fence you in. Life is messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. Here's what I know. If you're willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance, the view from the other side... is spectacular.' musingsofastrugglingwaitress.wordpress.com

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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 5:07 pm

I also belong to a religion that regards homosexual acts as sinful but I've always had a problem with this doctrine for a reason.  Let us think back to the years immediately after puberty.  All our parents (and all parents) worried constantly for us because they knew the strength of the sex drive and if it's prematurely acted upon the profound implications on young people's lives.


That being demonstrably true then how to explain homosexuality?  Do we think that kids wake up one day and say "I know what will annoy Mom and Dad, I'll ignore the strongest force in nature and decide to like my same gender!"  Obviously not, the tendency is in-bred.  If so what does society say to the whatever % of our population is gay?  You must be celibate your entire life, or engage in sexual relations with a person you have no desire for in order to meet our approval, or religious doctrines?


Makes no sense to me.

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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 5:14 pm

Clarification - homosexual orientation is attraction to the same sex.  Homosexual activity is having sex with a person of the same gender.  There is not such thing as the 'homosexual lifestyle' any more than there is a 'heterosexual lifestyle'.


For those who think homosexuality is a moral weakness that can be resisted such as envy or gluttony.  Is that your personal experience?  Are you straight because you're 'resisting' the urge to have sex with the same gender.

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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 5:21 pm

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>It can lead to discrimination, which is wrong, whatever you're basing it on. They're not really protected, and besides people don't throw stones at straight people.
If God exists, then he made them the way they are. We are told to love everyone. Why are they any different.

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Don't blame God for people's decisions.  When someone lies to me, it wasn't because God forced him/her to.


As we have already said, there's huge difference between loving the person vs. the activity.  We can love a murderer, but not condone the activity.  We, as a society discriminate against activity all the time, and there are laws supporting that.... We discriminate against murder and theft and speeding, etc.  What's amazing is that a Christian in some places, they are forced to rent to non-married people even though they don't want to.


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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 5:28 pm

Discrimination. What part of that do you not understand?


'Boundaries don't keep other people out, they fence you in. Life is messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. Here's what I know. If you're willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance, the view from the other side... is spectacular.' musingsofastrugglingwaitress.wordpress.com

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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 5:29 pm

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>For those who think homosexuality is a moral weakness that can be resisted such as envy or gluttony.  Is that your personal experience?  Are you straight because you're 'resisting' the urge to have sex with the same gender.
Like I wrote before.... each of us have weaknesses.  I've never been tempted with homosexuality, but I have been tempted (and failed) in other things.


The most "famous" person that I know that escaped that lifestyle is a man named Dennis Jernigan.  Look him up - he's quite the example and he openly talks about it.


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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 5:33 pm

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>Discrimination. What part of that do you not understand?

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So let's take a real life example (one of many)... a Christian cake decorator was asked to make a wedding cake for a gay wedding - she refused because it conflicted with her religious beliefs.  Why should the religious people be discriminated against?


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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 5:42 pm

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I'm actually kinda sidetracked ...Right now, I'm playing STO, watching a documentary on the Muslim Brotherhood and watching a baseball game (BOS vs. MIN.)


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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 5:44 pm

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>When we disapprove of homosexuality we deter the young(who are gay) from being themselves and rob them of happiness and their sence of self worth. This is immoral.
Disapproving of something immoral is immoral???

Who says its immoral. Aside from the bronze age texts that says a lot of crazy things are immoral.
So... there's no such thing as morality in your view.... and all the laws, based on the Bible should be thrown out.....

nope...dont recall saying that

Okay ... you said "a lot of crazy things"....


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Report this Apr. 25 2012, 5:53 pm

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>It can lead to discrimination, which is wrong, whatever you're basing it on. They're not really protected, and besides people don't throw stones at straight people.
If God exists, then he made them the way they are. We are told to love everyone. Why are they any different.

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Don't blame God for people's decisions.  When someone lies to me, it wasn't because God forced him/her to.

As we have already said, there's huge difference between loving the person vs. the activity.  We can love a murderer, but not condone the activity.  We, as a society discriminate against activity all the time, and there are laws supporting that.... We discriminate against murder and theft and speeding, etc.  What's amazing is that a Christian in some places, they are forced to rent to non-married people even though they don't want to.

Once again I will point out that gays are not hurting anyone.Frankly I think alot of people would be offend with comparing gays to murderes. Its not the same thing.

Yes, you've said that and some of us disagree.


And the only comparison is that both are acts.  People made a choice in both matters.


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