The End of an Era

HedoIsBarisManco

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 11:00 am

Quote (akebono62 @ Dec. 19 2009, 11:06 am)
Quote (HedoIsBarisManco @ Dec. 20 2009, 6:57 am)
Single and Looking

You'll probably find the other sock lost in a dryer somewhere!

:D

You're a funny ####

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 11:03 am

Quote (Trekkicat @ Dec. 20 2009, 5:07 am)
That is why many women try to get an operation so they are still 'virgins' when they get married...

To me, it just wouldn't be the same. Once you lose your virginity, it's gone for good

HedoIsBarisManco

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 11:03 am

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Quote (Trekkicat @ Dec. 20 2009, 5:07 am)
That is why many women try to get an operation so they are still 'virgins' when they get married...

To me, it just wouldn't be the same. Once you lose your virginity, it's gone for good

You cannot regain virginity.  It's more than physical

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 11:29 am

It depends. Some men and some cultures consider women only a piece of crap if they do not have that little piece of skin betwen their legs.

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 11:47 am

Quote (Tommy_boy22 @ Dec. 19 2009, 11:47 am)
its just getting to me, being single is effecting my mood and giving me mood swings (Im crabby most of the time) and when I'm happy it doesnt last to long. Also, most of my friends are starting to get married, I keep on hoping they will get into a serious fight and break up so that they can be unhappy as me, it's also the getting older part.

Marriage will not solve these problems, actually they would make it worse! I am sure there are others on here that will agree that marriage is hard work! Getting married may solve some problems but it will also create a whole new set of problems, and how do you know that those new problems will be easier to live with than the problems of being single?

I have a daughter your age (no I am not setting you up) she has a boyfriend but she is not the type to rush into something and she knows that her own happiness is not something she can give to another.

In truth a healthy relationship is when you share your happiness with another and they share their happiness with you.

How can you give to someone something you don't have?

I spen many single years yearning for a relationship. While the desire to love and be loved is natural and good, don't sit and bemoan your single hood. Get out there and enjoy the life you have now instead of wishing you were in a difference circumstances.

At 23 you're still young!! Heck, I'm 46 and I am still young!!!

Trekkicat

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 11:53 am

I tried so many thing, going out, internet as my mother suggested me... nothing really worked. And those I wanted could not be mine.

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 11:55 am

I thought you already had a "lover" as you call it

Trekkicat

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 11:59 am

yes I have one. But still, all these things I tried never worked.

HedoIsBarisManco

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 12:01 pm

Well, it must have worked

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Report this Dec. 20 2009, 12:08 pm

Nope, it did not. I left my ex lover, because I had no idea he wanted to maniuplate me. But that is another story.

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Report this Dec. 21 2009, 3:12 pm

Quote (Trekkicat @ Dec. 20 2009, 9:08 am)
Nope, it did not. I left my ex lover, because I had no idea he wanted to maniuplate me. But that is another story.

Funny you call your current sex partner your lover, since you've said you don't know if love exists or that you can feel it toward anyone.

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Report this Dec. 21 2009, 4:59 pm

what else shall I call him instead? everybody says 'lover' even if there are no feelings involved.

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Report this Dec. 21 2009, 8:10 pm

Quote (Trekkicat @ Dec. 21 2009, 1:59 pm)
what else shall I call him instead? everybody says 'lover' even if there are no feelings involved.

I don't know.

People here in my area of California call them "partners".

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Report this Dec. 21 2009, 11:07 pm

Quote (HedoIsBarisManco @ Dec. 20 2009, 11:55 am)
I thought you already had a "lover" as you call it

I have never like the word "Lover"  It seems to reduce love and relationships to sex... Maybe it's just me, but it has bothered me my whole life...

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Report this Dec. 22 2009, 12:24 am

Single, and like'n it that way... :cool:  ;)

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