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Sep. 18 2009, 5:50 pm
| Quote (Admiral_JTK @ Sep. 18 2009, 5:49 pm) | Its like a good friend of mine likes to say when when the topic of the sexuality of others comes into question.
"What makes her think that she's a lesbian?
I mean......I can always SAY I'm a homo - BUT - until I've actually sucked a cock........???" |
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Sep. 18 2009, 6:15 pm
CHALLENGE HER FEMALE is how I voted.
Although Trekkie Guy VS Butch Girl. I don't like your chances...
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Sep. 18 2009, 6:23 pm
You're a gay in love with a lesbian?
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Sep. 18 2009, 6:29 pm
Gotta love it when folks roll in at the end of a conversation |
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Sep. 19 2009, 6:35 am
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Sep. 19 2009, 2:21 pm
| Quote (Nachtkommen @ Sep. 19 2009, 2:31 am) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 18 2009, 3:21 pm) | | Quote (Nachtkommen @ Sep. 18 2009, 2:55 pm) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 17 2009, 4:53 pm) | | Quote (Trekkicat @ Sep. 17 2009, 4:32 pm) | | lesbians cannot find any sexual beauty in a male, they will look out for female partners because they only want sex with women. |
That's not true... Nothing is black and white, there are gradations especially with lesbians. ¿Many lesbians date men as well...
Many women fall in love with the emotion more than the physical. |
So does that mean there's a possibility I can sway any man here? |
Not any mnm but some men... Sexuality is not fixed |
Why not all men?
Are you saying for some their sexually is fixed, but for others it's not? |
People crack me up. It is amazing that we think that a word controls who we are. It is also amazing that people think there is predictability when it comes to Sexuality. Gay, straight, lesbian, bi sexual, just words. People fall in love with and are attracted to other people. Anything with in that realm is possible. Don't let preconcieved ideas limit your chances at love or limit who you are as a person. |
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Sep. 19 2009, 4:25 pm
| Quote (Nachtkommen @ Sep. 19 2009, 3:54 pm) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 19 2009, 2:21 pm) | | Quote (Nachtkommen @ Sep. 19 2009, 2:31 am) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 18 2009, 3:21 pm) | | Quote (Nachtkommen @ Sep. 18 2009, 2:55 pm) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 17 2009, 4:53 pm) | | Quote (Trekkicat @ Sep. 17 2009, 4:32 pm) | | lesbians cannot find any sexual beauty in a male, they will look out for female partners because they only want sex with women. |
That's not true... Nothing is black and white, there are gradations especially with lesbians. ?Many lesbians date men as well...
Many women fall in love with the emotion more than the physical. |
So does that mean there's a possibility I can sway any man here? |
Not any mnm but some men... Sexuality is not fixed |
Why not all men?
Are you saying for some their sexually is fixed, but for others it's not? |
People crack me up. ¿It is amazing that we think that a word controls who we are. ¿It is also amazing that people think there is predictability when it comes to Sexuality. ¿
Gay, straight, lesbian, bi sexual, just words. ¿People fall in love with and are attracted to other people. ¿Anything with in that realm is possible. ¿
Don't let preconcieved ideas limit your chances at love or limit who you are as a person. |
You've prolly read quite a few of my posts here on the forums. ¿If I was pansexual, (or sexually confused) I'd have no shame in saying that I am. ¿But I'm not. ¿I didn't decide I wanted to be gay, and confine my sexuality to that label. ¿I like the peen and always have. ¿My taste in men may broaden, but I will still like men only.
I could ask you the same. ¿Why limit your love to just one sex? ¿Why do you only desire and seek out women? ¿Those men that came on to you that you turned down, give them a chance. ¿It could turn into a loving, lifelong relationship. ¿Why pass something like that up? |
You and I agree... I'm not arguing... I just think, know, that sexuality is not fixed. It changes from person to person. And that person changes from day to day. If one day I start dating men it would not be an insult to straight men. Neither is it an insult to gay men if a gay man dates a woman. It reminds me of Chasing Amy when her friends found out she was dating a man, they shuned her. I know the fear. People are afraid that others will now say, "See it's a choice.". That's a political agenda. I'm further along in the discussion. I say any human being can be attracted to any other human being... Period. Names like gay, bi don't matter. We love who we love. Taking the discussion further I do think women are more likely to express this than men. Women tend to have a more emotional attachment. Where men both gay and straight are more physical and visual. This is why in society we see more "bi" women than men. (along with social acceptance of lesbian behavior in public) There is no difference between a gay man and a straight man execpt for the object of their attraction. But their hugedifferences between men and women. |
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Sep. 21 2009, 8:54 am
| Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 19 2009, 2:21 pm) | | Quote (Nachtkommen @ Sep. 19 2009, 2:31 am) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 18 2009, 3:21 pm) | | Quote (Nachtkommen @ Sep. 18 2009, 2:55 pm) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 17 2009, 4:53 pm) | | Quote (Trekkicat @ Sep. 17 2009, 4:32 pm) | | lesbians cannot find any sexual beauty in a male, they will look out for female partners because they only want sex with women. |
That's not true... Nothing is black and white, there are gradations especially with lesbians. ?Many lesbians date men as well...
Many women fall in love with the emotion more than the physical. |
So does that mean there's a possibility I can sway any man here? |
Not any mnm but some men... Sexuality is not fixed |
Why not all men?
Are you saying for some their sexually is fixed, but for others it's not? |
People crack me up. ¿It is amazing that we think that a word controls who we are. ¿It is also amazing that people think there is predictability when it comes to Sexuality. ¿
Gay, straight, lesbian, bi sexual, just words. ¿People fall in love with and are attracted to other people. ¿Anything with in that realm is possible. ¿
Don't let preconcieved ideas limit your chances at love or limit who you are as a person. |
If a lesbian falls in love with a man then she is bisexual and not hetero. she will always find women attractive. and yes you can control in whom you fall in love. not always, but it is possible. |
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Sep. 24 2009, 4:46 pm
| Quote (Avenger_Class2009 @ Sep. 17 2009, 3:54 pm) | 'I'm a guy in love with a lesbian'
What shall I do? |
Me to, just be her friend and if she changes she changes, if not then she doesn't and either you'll find another woman some day, or remain single. Oh well, I feel you. Course the woman I love, used to date me, that's worse. But we are friends, and I will always hope, but I don't try and get between them. As much as I might want to. I have to respect her feelings. So keep chugging along and nothing or something will happen, be cool. |
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Sep. 24 2009, 5:12 pm
| Quote (Trekkicat @ Sep. 21 2009, 1:54 pm) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 19 2009, 2:21 pm) | | Quote (Nachtkommen @ Sep. 19 2009, 2:31 am) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 18 2009, 3:21 pm) | | Quote (Nachtkommen @ Sep. 18 2009, 2:55 pm) | | Quote (QdonQ @ Sep. 17 2009, 4:53 pm) | | Quote (Trekkicat @ Sep. 17 2009, 4:32 pm) | | lesbians cannot find any sexual beauty in a male, they will look out for female partners because they only want sex with women. |
That's not true... Nothing is black and white, there are gradations especially with lesbians. ?Many lesbians date men as well...
Many women fall in love with the emotion more than the physical. |
So does that mean there's a possibility I can sway any man here? |
Not any mnm but some men... Sexuality is not fixed |
Why not all men?
Are you saying for some their sexually is fixed, but for others it's not? |
People crack me up. ?It is amazing that we think that a word controls who we are. ?It is also amazing that people think there is predictability when it comes to Sexuality. ?
Gay, straight, lesbian, bi sexual, just words. ?People fall in love with and are attracted to other people. ?Anything with in that realm is possible. ?
Don't let preconcieved ideas limit your chances at love or limit who you are as a person. |
If a lesbian falls in love with a man then she is bisexual and not hetero.
she will always find women attractive. and yes you can control in whom you fall in love. not always, but it is possible. |
Falling in love is not a conscious choice. |
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Sep. 24 2009, 5:16 pm
it can be
I know it myself
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Sep. 24 2009, 5:19 pm
You cannot simply decide to fall in love with someone or not. All you can decide is whether you want to be with them...
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Sep. 24 2009, 5:37 pm
the first time I did, I was unprepared... he was the most beautiful man on this planet.
but later, it took me weeks to let feelings grow... but I am sure that it can be controlled. I can fall in love with many guys but it is my choice in whom
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Sep. 26 2009, 7:32 pm
I have fallen for a lot of women who (go figure) already had a man in their life (Hi Della.) My friends have gotten somewhat tired of hearing about it. Maybe if I complained about them having a woman it would make the whole shtick interesting again (Hi Deanne.)
What can I say? Women are like parking spaces; All the good ones are taken and the rest are handicapped.
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